Grief and loss: Comforting a surviving parent

If you are caring for a parent who has just lost a spouse it can be difficult to know what to say or do. At such a traumatic time many adult children find themselves having to organise finances or deal with practical matters such as funeral arrangements.

You may even find yourself caring for the remaining parent as their health deteriorates. This can make many adult children feel like their grief has to take a back seat. And in some cases it does.

I've looked after many older people who were lucky to have very dedicated spouses who cared for them lovingly almost to the point where I've wondered how they would go on without them. Many don't, caring for a sick spouse often gives the other partner the will to get up each day.  

I've written an article here about how to help your surviving parent whilst caring for yourself and would appreciate any comments. 

Grief and loss: How to support a grieving parent